It is not always easy to say no. The thought of saying it out loud is comparable to the thought of saying the worst curse word in the world in front of a congregation at church. It just doesn't feel right, ever.As dreaded as this word can be, in certain situations, it is absolutely crucial to not only say it, but stick to your guns when you do so. An extremely crucial time to say it is when it comes to matters of the heart. If there is one time that you should absolutely say no when it comes to relationships, it is saying no to being "an option." Being an option for a guy is about as easy as it can get for him, but extremely difficult and gut-wrenching for you. Whether you are an option for him as friends with benefits, a constant rebound after his relationships fail, text buddies who never actually hang out, consistently in a grey area with no commitment, or any other form of option, this is not an equal or fair relationship.There could be a million reasons girls choose to be an option for an amount of time, but they all probably revolve around the word hope.
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