Ever wondered why most of our heroines do not succeed as home makers? Some spend decades together and decide to separate their paths, some even find it difficult complete one year of togetherness and some heroines remain single forever. Manju Warrier, Mamta, Urvashi, Revathy, Rohini, Saritha and the list goes on!
Most of them start acting in their teens, when our kids do schooling and collaging and slowly take their lessons of life, they start earning all by themselves, get to work with famous and super successful achievers. They become famous, recognized by people where ever they go ,they have fans but at the same time they have to handle a lot of negativity, unreal articles are written , scandal pictures taken and circulated. Often they lose faith in people and embrace a detachment. They don't buy any advice; neither like to be instructed by parents or spouse, they become alcoholic and slowly lose the grip.
Recently an actress told me, I am afraid to get married, all I know other than acting is to put make up on my face and give dieting tips to fat people. With a shock I accepted the reality of her life. She didn't complete her education, somebody told her, you are already making money, why wasting time in college sits with uncouth students from villages. She was also got carried away by the fame and started living in a bubble.
Another angle is, according to a psychologist friend who works in famous rehab in Toronto, says some of his patients who secretly visit displayed strange cases of bipolar disorder. Their mood swings and foul temper separated them from everything and everyone they loved. Initially they didn't care; they stood straight and held their "I know all" attitude. Slowly they realized that there are more dimensions to life, at some point they need others presence and support.
So other than celebrating their personal tragedies and downfalls, let’s have a little bit of sympathy towards them, most of them needed that